As divorce mediators, we try to reduce the degree of stress a couple experiences in the divorce mediation process as well as the amount of money that must be spent on their divorce.  In these challenging financial times, many couples are determined not to deplete their children's college funds to pay for their divorce.  Technology has been helpful in furthering the economic goals of divorce mediation.

In gathering the information necessary to make the financial decisions required in divorce mediation, we use computer software to assist us.  The software we prefer is Family Law Software.  This technology allows us to enter the couple's financial data in a format that is easy to understand and to modify.  We are able to produce and manipulate a variety of reports that illustrate different scenarios that can be compared and analyzed through the divorce mediation process.

Here a just a few examples:
*We can move financial assets between spouses and see the effect that such a change has on the individual's total financial picture.
*We can evaluate the tax benefits of shifting payments between alimony and child support categories. 
*We can produce budgets that provide the couple comfort that they will be able to live comfortably after divorce. 

The financial software allows us to see the reports instantly as the mediating parties negotiate the issues that must be addressed in divorce mediation.  It also allows us to email these reports directly to the parties and the attorneys who will review the agreements reached as divorce mediation progresses.  Clear and understandable information helps parties reach fair and comprehensive agreements that comport with their values and intentions.

The software also helps divorcing couples determine the amount of child support that is payable under the Connecticut Child Support Guidelines.  While many couples deviate from the Guidelines for a variety of reasons, it is helpful to have a quick look at the Guidelines as a starting point.

The Financial Affidavits that divorcing parties must file with the Court, whether using divorce mediation or not, are produced by the software as well, based upon the data the couple provides.  The software can collate the data input regarding income, expenses, assets and liabilities and create draft Financial Affidavits for the parties' review.

It is clear that all of these functions are useful in expediting the divorce mediation process.  And as we all know, time is money.